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Personally, I find small talk to be one of the most anxiety-producing flirting tactics out there.Sometimes I get so lost in a brain loop that I totally check out, only to come to five minutes later to hear them rambling about how great of a dog dad they are. from Season 4 isn't the only one obsessed with his pooch.)Figueroa suggests guys who try to feel out the sitch by small-talking you to death may be a bit more guarded.Guys who rely on doing something over the top to get your attention are probably not short on confidence, but Figeroa suggests "[taking] this sort of flirting with a grain of salt." Mostly because it's hard to differentiate between genuine interest on their part or a deep-seeded need to be the center of attention. However, if you're into him and not put off by non-invasive physical gestures, it's definitely a sign that he's attracted to you."Not every guy who flirts by getting more physical only wants to hook up, but you can be certain that the guys who are looking to hook up will flirt this way," says Figeroa.
It's fun, it's relaxed, and it's free of the aloofness and overt cockiness men love to dish out by the truckload.
This isn't a bad move, considering some of the more subtle seduction tactics can feel a bit contrived — putting many women on the defense."When a guy tells you exactly what he wants, or how he feels, he's trying to prove that in some way, he's a bit more mature and well-rounded than his peers," says Figueroa.
Having a guy tell it to you straight can certainly be impressive and a surefire way to gauge their confidence level.
Most importantly, it builds a bond, Figeroa points out."Bonding builds connections, and connecting with them can help build attraction and show that you're attracted to them," suggests Figeroa.
In my opinion, it also seems fair to assume this type of guy is smart because he's using a tactic with a built-in feedback mechanism.
Few things are as convoluted and confusing as trying to figure out male behavior. I don't care how many of my guy friends insist that "men and women aren't so different after all" and that women should just "stop reading so much into things." I mean, how can we not?